Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you?'`

I don't think that's something you can answer, it's rethorical. It's a statement. Anyway I'm going to comment on it, I think it's a two way thing, you're never alone, I will quote C. Palahniuk to explain a little bit further: "nothing about me is original, I am the conbined effort about everybody I've ever known"
and it's sort of true, you're not an original and unic snow flake, you were trained by society to think a certain way, whatever you think a thousand people have thought about it before you. And my decitions, I was trained to want them that way, it's not an isolated act of my own creation, I don't do it alone.

knock yourself out, x